FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Coffee and chat in a cafe. Then perhaps a stroll outside so we can talk and start to get to know one another.

I would like to grab a coffee or sandwich h or both and go somewhere safe to walk or talk or bothand see how we connect if we do we can decide from there if we don't we can part and cherish that we had a few minutes of getting to know a little bit about each other ....of course anything that would make you uncomfortable is out of the question.

I think the first date should quit a bit of whimsy to it. Slow easy going, a lot of talking, get to know you stuff, who you are, what you've done, what you like, don't like, and where you want to go. Then on to dreams, visions, fantasies, and certainly values as well. What you feel like your purpose is, your ultimate goals, maybe a few items on your bucket list, and maybe even the good stuff you want people to say about you at your funeral. Yeah....really! That really tells a person what you are and what you want to be. Of course you don't have to accomplish all of that in the first 8 hour talking date. I'm kidding about the 8 hours......but maybe.....if the stars align and its a good day.....it might happen. Relationships are meant to be something that helps you fulfill your self right.....so you have to know all that stuff. You have to find out the mundane everyday stuff about a person and then what they see at their potential and you will likely find out the extent of what they need in life to make it an adventure for them. Because we all need that or it just isn't fun. Then experience something fun or entertaining and we find out how each other thinks.....because that is really important I think. First the interfacing of the minds and then the emotions and then if that goes swimmingly well and the communication there has accomplished a real depth, then the physical will happen automatically.

Let's meet and talk so that we can see if we fit each other. you get to know me and I get to know you.

I always thought that a cafe date is the best way to get to know someone, and depending on how the conversation goes we could be talking for hours with each other

I would like to go for a good coffee, have a pleasant conversation and then plan another date after that.

Que te parecería en nuestra primera cita, ir a cenar en un lugar agradable y tener una muy amena conversación para conocernos mejor?

Let's go for coffee or a bite to eat to see if there is attraction/chemistry, and if we click,and maybe go for a walk on the beach or go on a small hike

Learn to discover each other over a real coffee, talk to each other and listen to each other. To hear and understand each other. This is what I want from a first date.

Talking , in cafe , during the walk , sitting somewhere in private , in nature , perhaps during swimming in the swimming pool area

a woman to share life with , with happiness , with joy ,, and be together even in the sadness moments

I'd prefer to meet for tea or coffee somewhere so we can both easily walk away, should we not be compatible.

We could meet somewhere in public or private location and chat with each other and then decide what will happen next

I would be okay talking and picking your brain over a vanilla bean Starbucks. Or if she had something else in mind I am always open to new ideas

I would like to get a coffee and go walk and talk to see if we like each other! I would also be bringing a bottle of homemade wine!

Hmm hotel is the best for me because private rooms and the hotel are the best places for me to stay any night

Like to get some coffee and talk and after walk in a park or street to talk about ourselves and have a site seen

First date...a light snack, maybe coffee and a pastry, conversation so that we can get to know each other better and decide if we want a second date

we can meet at a cafe first, have some drinks, get to know each other, afterwards we can do other activities during out next meetups

To have a great dinner and to have some evening walk together or we can go in the movie together to have the most beautiful and happiest time